Creating Inclusive Spaces for LGBTQ+ Population and Campus Community
Facilitators:
Emily Lasso de la Vega (she/he/hers)
NASPA Policy and Practice Series – Safe Spaces and Brave Spaces
Respect toward the identities, lived experiences, and opinions of others.
Words and thoughts expressed in this room STAY in this room; however, the knowledge and skills acquired here should LEAVE with you.
ALLY
ANDROGYNY
AROMANTIC
ASEXUAL/ NONSEXUAL
ASSIGNED SEX
CISGENDER
CLOSETED
COMING OUT
GENDER IDENTITY
GENDER EXPRESSION
GENDER QUEER
GENDER VARIANT/GENDER NON-CONFORMING
HETERONORMATIVITY
INTERSEX
SEXUAL ORIENTATION
PANSEXUAL
POLYAMORY
QUEER
SEXUAL IDENTITY/EXPRESSION
THIRD GENDER
TRANSGENDER
TWO SPIRIT
Please look at the following list of privileges. Each privilege costs $100 to purchase. As a group, please purchase as many privileges as your money allows.
DO:
DON'T:
WHY?
It takes a lot of courage and trust to come out to someone. Taking it for granted or dismissing it may be hurtful.
DO:
DON'T:
WHY?
As stated above, coming out is not easy. Some people may not feel comfortable opening up to a group of strangers.
DO:
DON'T:
WHY?
Like we saw with the terminology, there are several terms out there and some people may prefer certain identifiers over others.
Remember that it is your job to educate yourself.
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DON'T:
WHY?
You would not open up about every identity you possess to a complete stranger. It takes time and trust for us to truly open up and share who we are with others.
Purposefully “baiting” people to push them to share information is inconsiderate and rude.
AVOID SAYING: Hermaphrodite
SAY INSTEAD: Intersex
WHY? Hermaphrodite is a stigmatizing, inaccurate word with a negative medical history.
EXAMPLE: "What are the best practices for the care of intersex infants?”
AVOID SAYING: Homosexual
SAY INSTEAD: Gay
WHY? “Homosexual” often connotes a medical diagnosis, or a discomfort with gay/lesbian people.
EXAMPLE: “We want to do a better job of being inclusive of our gay employees.”
AVOID SAYING: “Born female” or “born male”/ “female-bodied” or “male-bodied”
SAY INSTEAD: A gay/transgender person
WHY? Gay and transgender are adjectives that describe a person/group
EXAMPLE: “We had a transgender athlete in our league this year.”
AVOID SAYING: “Transgender people and normal people”
SAY INSTEAD: Transgender people and cisgender people
WHY? Saying “normal” implies “abnormal,” which is a stigmatizing way to refer to a person.
EXAMPLE: “This group is open to both transgender and cisgender people.”
AVOID SAYING: “Both genders” or “opposite sexes”
SAY INSTEAD: All genders
WHY? “Both” implies there are only two; “Opposite” reinforces antagonism amongst genders
EXAMPLE: “Video games aren’t just a boy thing – kids of all genders play them.”
AVOID SAYING: Ladies and gentlemen
SAY INSTEAD: “Everyone,” “Folks,” “Honored guests,” etc
WHY? Moving away from binary language is more inclusive of people of all genders
EXAMPLE: “Good morning everyone, next stop Picadilly Station.”
AVOID SAYING: “Mailman,” fireman,” “policeman,” etc
SAY INSTEAD: “Mail clerk,” “firefighter,” “police officer,” etc
WHY? People of all genders do these jobs
EXAMPLE: “I actually saw a firefighter rescue a cat from a tree.”
AVOID SAYING: “It” when referring to someone (e.g., when pronouns are unknown)
SAY INSTEAD: They
WHY? “It” is for referring to things, not people.
EXAMPLE: “You know, I am not sure how they identify.”
Full List of Vocabulary Terms here.
Spectrum is an organization for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, queer, and questioning students, staff, and faculty, along with all of our LGBT-supportive allies. We are based on the Missouri S&T campus, but meetings and activities are open to the public. All supportive individuals are welcome.
https://mst.campuslabs.com/engage/organization/spectrum
GERB is a social support group organized on Discord. The focus is to provide peer social support for transgender, nonbinary and gender nonconforming individuals, and help them find resources to live as the best version of themselves. Contact Onyx Russ at cr4fw@umsystem.edu to join the Discord group.
The mission of the SDI office is to foster diversity and inclusion in the Missouri S&T community by providing a welcoming climate for all students. The department aims to support underrepresented, first generation, and low income students from all walks of life through programming, retention, and mentoring initiatives.
Mental health is important in every stage of life – don’t wait to take care of it. Visit our office at 204 Norwood Hall or give us a call at (573) 341-4211 to learn how we can help you today.
The department serves as a resource to students, faculty, and staff in education, prevention, and investigation of sexual violence, as well as other possible violations of the university’s non-discrimination policies.
UUFR is a creed-less lay group of liberal individuals who believe in the freedom of religious expression through deeds. We believe everyone should develop their own personal theologies without fear of censure or reprisal. UUs serve “all souls” regardless of race, class, age, or perceived or actual sexual orientation or gender identity.
LGBTQ Rolla has an overarching goal of improving the lives of individuals of all sexual orientations and gender identities in Rolla and Phelps County, Missouri.
Find a provider. Are you lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender and looking for a healthcare professional you can trust? GLMA’s online Provider Directory can help. Search for primary care providers, specialists, therapists, dentists, and other health professionals in your area. The service is free and you do not need to register.
https://glmaimpak.networkats.com/members_online_new/members/dir_provider.asp
Founded in 1998 by the creators of the Academy Award winning short film TREVOR, The Trevor Project is the leading national organization providing crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and questioning (LGBTQ) young people ages 13-24.
http://www.thetrevorproject.org/section/about
The National LGBT Health Education Center provides educational programs, resources, and consultation, to health care organizations with the goal of optimizing quality, cost-effective health care for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) people.
https://www.lgbthealtheducation.org/
GLAAD rewrites the script for LGBTQ acceptance. As a dynamic media force, GLAAD tackles tough issues to shape the narrative and provoke dialogue that leads to cultural change. Check out the resource list we have compiled below!
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